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Refreshingly earnest post with more than valid thoughts. I've struggled with weight my entire life and it's fucked up. I feel like people are in a slightly better place as far as body positivity goes (case in point, I can say that and at least most people will know what I mean as opposed to 10, even 5 years ago. The age you view yourself is something I've really been grappling with lately as well. There are days where I feel like I'm a decade earlier mentally. That's a pretty cruel joke. I don't know where I was going with all that other than to say that was a good post and definitely relatable.
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Welcome back. Not sure how long it has been for you, but you can be assured plenty fish to consider. Plenty of men who can, will, and should appreciate you even in your current form.
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Glad to see you're still around. Always enjoyed reading your thoughts. Agreed the old place has changed, but as CreativeType5 noted, the blogs are still real people... As opposed to the bots, obvious fake profiles and the WTF "I am good person seeking my mate" profiles. Hopefully you'll be at a place where you're up for meeting people again soon. While you've experienced physical changes, I'm sure the kinky and confident mind is still there.
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8/26/2018 4:18 pm |
I think you are being too hard on yourself. All of us, as we age, want to think as we did 10 or even more years ago, and relive things as they were. That i think is normal. Don't forget the right match will still make you laugh, make you smile and create a desire that with just a kiss could get you all tingly in the right spots. That in itself will bring out the inner instincts in each of you allowing you to not only possibly match the stereotypical pictures in your head or even exceed pleasures from your past - i guess i am suggesting ignore the stereotypes while continuing to better yourself and in the meantime be patient as that partner who hits all your hot buttons is out there.
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Listen, I understand how you are attracted to other men who are younger and more physically fit, but at the same time, I think that it's good to allow yourself to be open toward other men. Not trying to tell you what to think either, but just keep that mind open for men who might not be your ideal, but willing to spend the time with you and to get to know you for who you are. Like myself for instance!
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