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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/27/2018 1:56 am

I get the being kind mirage and all which is very commendable and unlike any
I have ever seen, read and quite frankly could ever imagine.

You went way out of your way to be cordial and decent hearted and this is how
a born again evolution discenter reacts to best wishes.You should have called for a rubber truck way back then.

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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/27/2018 3:51 am

There is always a risk here of getting involved with the unstable. Kindness can be mistaken for sexual interest. I see nothing wrong with religion but it can be used in a fanatic manner with some. Do all you can to steer clear of him. If you sense something is wrong take that as true, it usually is.


VelkutuVoom 55M
135 posts
5/27/2018 7:00 am

I'm definitely not as nice as you. As Nietzsche might say: This is who I am, this is what I want and you can go to hell.


bjb777 63M  
13 posts
5/27/2018 9:15 am

Wow that sounds a little scary there i think i would steer way clear of that guy DAM!


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
5/27/2018 9:45 am

It's what happens when you try to be nice to someone!!


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
5/27/2018 7:34 pm

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/27/2018 8:18 pm

Presuming this guy lives close enough to possibly find you it might be worth talking to your local law enforcement. Not necessairily "call a cop" but see what resources are available in case he is/could be a problem.

If you know his name run a 'public access' court check on him to see if he has a history of problems with women.

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ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
5/28/2018 2:56 am

You have a lot more patience than I would have had. I would have blocked a long time ago.

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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/28/2018 4:46 am

Sounds like he's mentally ill. But is he ill enough to do something stupid? It's always difficult to know for sure. But if makes one more move I'd be reporting him to the authorities. Does he have your personal contact details?


joseph359aff 62M
2 posts
5/29/2018 2:43 pm

First I will say you are right to block, and his behavior is flat out bad. Why, who knows.

I'm responding because I am one of those awkward introverted nerds that has a high sex drive and absolutely none of the skills or natural traits at sociability. So, I can relate to him to a degree.

In my history, I've made mistakes, none that bad as I recall, and I've learned from them. Introverts have a hard time relating to other people, we live too much in our heads. What saved me from being a complete ass was probably a fundamental respect and politeness that helped me see when I had goofed, and I owned it.

I don't have anything against Christians, I personally appreciate the Bible, but I have noticed religious converts are usually people seeking escape from their bad behaviors, not to actually improve themselves. Maybe they should read a little Matthew 6...

Back to me and 'this guy', if he's a lost cause, and he sounds like it, there is little you could have done to actually help him, he needs to face his own demons, and choose to be a better person.

Since you clearly were nice and reached out to him, I salute your patience and kindness first of all, you are now right to retreat for your well being. Should you run into other introverts, I will tell you what has helped me.

I have been attending meetings in the area in the 'lifestyle'. I started going in hopes of a sexual relationship, but many of the meetings are about communication and relationships, communication being a prime ingredient in lifestyle relationships. Well, I never got laid or a girlfriend, BUT, I have learned so much about respecting women and even men, it has been a wonderful enlightenment. The fact it isn't Bible based helps, as they don't just try to toss your sexuality into the 'sin' bag.

The, what do they call them, Involuntary Celibates, I cracked up when I heard that, but I think 20 years ago I might have given it too much credit. The fact is, some men, and women from that matter, are just not attractive, sociable and whatever else that relationships will generally happen. It is not my fault for being what I am, it is not your fault being who you are. Sitting around thinking I am somehow wronged because I don't get laid as much as a man, or woman, who is naturally better at finding that, is insane. I think many men like me were indoctrinated to think all men should have that 'access', and we feel wronged when it does not happen. A good argument to look askance at the norms of society, and how damaging they are to those of us who just are different.

So, I thank you for being the kind of person who tried to be really kind, I say to you don't take shit from anyone, and for those few like me, just being honest and direct is the best medicine you can give them. If they don't respect that, walk away, maybe they will listen down the road, but that's not your problem.

I feel a little sorry for the guy, but it's up to him to get his head out of his ass, I hope he does.

best wishes to all - Joseph


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