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Don't let the toxic actions of others affect you  

SMCouple209 53M/46F
23 posts
2/17/2018 2:16 pm
Don't let the toxic actions of others affect you

ou see it all the time. So many examples. All the same style of negative agenda.

Certain Fetlebs attacking others writings recently, trying to shame them for their choices of how they choose to Dominate or kink. Because everyone should only Dominate their manly and dominant way of course..... le fucking sigh.

Or toxic people attacking others, because they are either narcissists and don’t think others should gain more attention than them.

Toxic people who are sour and don’t believe others should have fun.

Toxic people that are not accepting of others kinks because they don’t understand them, or they believe because they don’t kink a certain way that the person’s kink is not justified

Or people that are simply cunts and enjoy spreading negativity.

I see it affecting good people and making those good people decide to leave.

Simply choose not to acknowledge or respond to toxic people. Delete their comments or if they continue to comment, simply block them so it auto deletes everything they comment (on your posts) and doesn’t allow them to comment again.

Choosing not to allow toxic people affect my method of thinking and choosing not to respond to toxic people has made my journey happier. And that became my new mode and method.

I decided a while back that others do not have the right to make me feel negative, angry or incensed by their toxic actions.

They don't have my consent to take my joy and fun away.

Make a stand. This is your journey, your kink, your choice. No one else’s. Tell them to accept it or to fuck off. If they cannot, then block them and evict them from your journey and existence. It’s not hard.

I suggest you don’t give others consent to sprinkle negativity on yours either. Your journey and experience here will increase tenfold.

As always, I hope you enjoy your journey


Look but Don't Touch


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
2/17/2018 2:34 pm

Know what you mean. In chat a wanna be dom tried telling me a few things I do/believe is wrong. He was one of those his way is the only right way. I say wanna be because there is no one true way. In mail I asked another wanna be if he read my profile. Omg I had the nerve to question him. I asked because my profile at the time said female only. In chat a few said I had to talk with them. To me a real dom knows no woman has to talk with him. I do kink. Not d/s. Never said I am a submissive or slave. I roleplay a slave. They roleplay a dom. Difference is I admit it's roleplay. Those in chat and mail don't

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/17/2018 6:02 pm

Making the ascertion that others should accept anothers or "Fuck off"
really couldn't be any more toxic .

Using more than all the road!


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
2/17/2018 9:42 pm

Negative energy is poison.


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