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Who would actually really like to meet and have sex?????
Who would actually really like to meet and have sex????? There should be another button allowing people to let other people know that they are serious about meeting in the hope of sparks flying and having sex (good sparks of course). I don't know about you guys but I am sick of chatting, exchanging pics, , telephone video/chat and both agreeing to meet then nothing happening. Somebody please tell me that if having real sex no longer exists then please shoot me now. Thank you for your comments, I tend to cease communication if it turns out to be a one way street ie I push for a meet but the issue is avoided by more talk or them trying to initiate cam sex. I am very particular, I think that my profile makes that quite clear, I enjoy sex as a healthy form of exercise and also a beautiful art form of exquisite adventure and discovery. My order was tall to start with and is getting taller by the day, I do not want a string of one night stands that has never been my thing but I do want to find that one man who wants the same as I do, amazing sex, if we happen to have enlightening conversation and a meeting of minds in other areas then all the better. |
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It's par for this site, sadly !!
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I think it's a crap shoot. Seem to be plenty of men interested in sex... but frankly most who contact me I am not interested in.
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It is usually a question of proximity. There are real people on this site who'd like casual sex on a one off or repeating basis. Some people come looking for love (good luck to them!), but that isn't what a swinger site is about. Don't give up!
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If both of you are getting off talking/camming to each other, there's less incentive to meet. If they don't meet are they still chatting to you? or ghosting you?
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It would be a great upgrade if we could see and chose to interact with others with the same purpose here. But it could discourage people from staying here as there are a lot of different options besides meeting. I tend to ask early on if meeting and sex are a possibility. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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11/18/2018 12:14 pm |
Way too many clowns on here playing games for sure
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11/18/2018 12:15 pm |
Be very specific on your profile page and when talking ask if they read and understand your goals
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When one is actually serious they concentrate on those of whom are local or indigenous to their area.Your frustration is just an unfortunate by product of having a profile on a site where anyone and their brother from around the world can read your cries of desire,You did say serious right! Using more than all the road!
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Just my 2cents … One would think that's the idea here.
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11/18/2018 1:19 pm |
ive meet 3 people from this site. 1 of them i still talk to even today
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Unfortunately, there is no shortage of people on here who are not really interested in meeting for sex and are just playing at it for whatever kicks they get out of it. it's absolutely no consolation to you but I think it's even harder for men. keep trying, Id be surprised if you don't get plenty of serious offers
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Certainly this site is full of rogues, charlatans & bull shit artists, all of whom are all talk of course. You obviously know what you want & like so no reason to settle for anything less.Luck of the draw in the long run I suppose yet you never know when the right person will suddenly appear. Yes that is cliche but I'm a firm believer in good karma & how things can change in your favour when least expected.
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11/19/2018 4:43 pm |
it seems that there are quite a few women that may have set the bar well out of their reach
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I don't know about you guys but I am sick of chatting, exchanging pics, , telephone video/chat and both agreeing to meet then nothing happening...... The solution is simple , stop chatting...stop exchanging phone numbers, stop video chatting..... Just tell them you want to meet at a place, at a time... that's where , in person , you can do your chatting..... stop all this time wasting shit. When you have their interest for more than a minute..... tell the fucker where and when you want to meet. Somebody please tell me that if having real sex no longer exists then please shoot me now. .... No, it still exists, only to get to that point requires meeting in person... and figuring stuff out..... like "Do I really want to fuck this person", or even simpler.... "Do I really want this person to have my phone number"................maybe you don't... maybe the guy is a complete loser. Better to make a meeting happen as soon as possible to find out if the person is a complete loser , than to spend days, weeks, or months chatting with a loser. I enjoy sex as a healthy form of exercise and also a beautiful art form of exquisite adventure and discovery. ... Great, but guys on here are mostly here to enjoy getting their stones off. This isn't an artsy-fartsy site. I do not want a string of one night stands ... Then you are on the wrong site sister.....
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