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Why do I let guys use me?  

Ass2Worship 44F
22 posts
2/20/2019 8:57 pm
Why do I let guys use me?


I can't believe I let guys use me like they do. I am lonely so I want attention and I'll do anything for a guy that I am attracted to. When a great with a great cock, ass, abs, and works with me I will be a good girl. Growing up overweight aka a huge butt and being made fun of after divorce I realized that guys like my ass. Lonely one with a great ass, hard nipples, and pussy that likes attention.

My emotions are so fucked up because for me sex means a guy thinks I am hot and that they want to be with me. I need help knowing sex isn't the answer.

Funnyboner50 55M
19 posts
2/20/2019 9:33 pm

Divorces suck, been there done that. All I can advise is love yourself. You are using them as they use you...it is a mutual physical attraction which always in some sense includes some emotional attractions for each. You have great sounding assets and I am sure they will lead you to the one....just don't give up you have too much to offer.


BUCKSHOT5863 60M
38 posts
2/20/2019 9:36 pm

sEX IS JUST A GREAT HABIT OR AN ADDICTION


CARROTSPIRAL6969 35M
147 posts
2/20/2019 9:54 pm

awe oxoxoox i alwasy get used by women so that is why i am here to find women that do not.


1classic4u 52M
22 posts
2/20/2019 11:58 pm

you do have a nice ass!


Aaausieguy448 61M

2/21/2019 12:50 am

i agree, more please


Yungstudbull25 31M
10 posts
2/21/2019 2:32 am

Because you love it darling


HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
2/21/2019 6:12 am

From the mouth of babes .... cept I'd say because of love she is allowed to ... because any other approach would not be so easily blinding nor welcome. You ask why but you don't really wanna hear the answer aloud and certainly that is not allowed and there would be a chorus of Mrs. Gs to claim a guy crazy for saying as much.

If we listen to the sermon on the mount we here the words of a dead man. A person wants to live and thrive and be alive, the only obstacle to that is every body else having the same goal and using every advantage, cognitive edge, and cheat they can to help you live less the life you want and more the fame and noteriety they have settled on as the only remnant of the promises of a better world and loving _noun_ that would always care ... as long as you change, because they don't want to.

Because by the time you sum it up and consider of what value the relationships of the past have actually been, once seen by the light of day, that a tough choice seems to loom ... is there any good, should one do better? The past is then seen through eyes of some kind of resolve ... different in degree and grade from person to person.

previous relations are re-evaluated ... you perhaps see the abuse more clearly now ... maybe it was physical, maybe social shaming, maybe embarrassing desperation acted out in a need for connection and then once in that connection, to defend the self and to prove you are right or at least correct ... the stings of slings and arrows and the mounting desire to share this with another. Then it might set in or at least be more visible and viable than before .... you liked it. Even if it wasn't the complete package and it wasn't the childhood promise or the textbook definition ... it was the best you knew at the time and it worked and you let go of control of yourself to another ... but the difference that noted makes all the difference - not all take that from you and those that do most cant do it as well as you would like or allow.

But -- How to get them to open to the experience though ... maybe get them to ask why you allow yourself to be put under their control for undefined times and undefined goals to spread your experiences and share them ... all of course in unconscious ways ... no need even for intentional apologetics, not even a whisper of sorrow at the passing of the days. what good does it do to ask for/givenness for the transgressions? Perhaps not much good at all unless you are feeling charitable.

Because admitting that you miss connection and companionship and being a good lap pet ... will not gain you the respect you know you deserve nor will it further you in the world, so it is heave the black flag and mamma never told it to you straight like I'm about to lay it down and lie down with it. And everyone else holding back the tears and laughing at everyone else in the rain. Just one more time - then they will learn... just one more win... just any sign of a lead or advantage ... just win one round ... just and just till all the room for justice is gone and like everyone else awaken to the game that cannot be won, but must be played or it will play you.

tl;dr- been trying to avoid blog bombing individual blogs lately ... I hope this doesn't read as me classifying and decrying a guilt. It is all me ... that is what I read when I read your post and that is my feeble attempt to convey that I can relate.

is it better to be magic or a magician? Is it better to be the subject under control or the one who controls? Who gets a the vaca? You let yourself be controlled because then you aren't in control of them .. like some crazed freak. Because mental health is about regulating your affective emotional states ... which is not the same as controlling your emotions. Because you want to have fun, but you also have a pieces of a heart that you don't want to surrender to a fool.
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bigdrick 61M
25 posts
2/21/2019 10:46 pm

you do have a great ass....and you do look good


Ass2Worship 44F
3 posts
2/26/2019 1:05 pm

I do not like feeling like a hooker but not getting anything out of it. Thank you for the comments. I know going on these sites of course guys will use me. Even in the past though guys saying they want more but then don't after they fuck me and they didn't even make me cum.

I haven't had sex of any kind for over 2 years because I hated the feeling of being cheap and used.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/5/2019 4:00 pm

    Quoting Ass2Worship:
    I do not like feeling like a hooker but not getting anything out of it. Thank you for the comments. I know going on these sites of course guys will use me. Even in the past though guys saying they want more but then don't after they fuck me and they didn't even make me cum.

    I haven't had sex of any kind for over 2 years because I hated the feeling of being cheap and used.
Why do I let guys use me? ... Because you want the attention. You're showing your ass, your tag name is Assworship....LOL... what kind of people did you think you would attract?

I can't believe I let guys use me like they do. .... You must be joking... this site is totally the wrong kind of site for you to be on, when you're looking to not be used.

I am lonely so I want attention ... Have you tried a "Book club"?

and I'll do anything for a guy that I am attracted to. .... Why? That's the same problem guys have, when they are infatuated with a woman, the dumbass will do anything for her..... but what happens? .... Sure, she finds someone "Better" than him, and the dumbass is left alone and probably thousands of dollars broker.
But in your case , you're left alone with sperm leaking out of your holes.

If you're going to stay on this site, understand there is a 99 percent chance you will only be for sex.

When a guy with a great cock, ass, abs, and works with me I will be a good girl. ...Think about it... if he has a great cock, great abs, great ass...... wouldn't you expect he would be getting attention from other women.... other women possibly better looking than you. .... He's going to play with them , as he plays with you. Getting that sexual attention from many women is a powerful seduction.

Growing up overweight aka a huge butt and being made fun of after divorce I realized that guys like my ass. .... You should have come to that realization somewhere around 14.

My emotions are so fucked up ... So unfuck your emotions. Wise up.

because for me sex means a guy thinks I am hot ... That's part of your problem... The guy doesn't think YOU are hot...he is aroused by the idea of having sex. Women don't seem to understand that concept.

Women say they don't want to be sexually objectified..... ... that will never happen unless they guy is gay, or just not sexually attracted to her.

I need help knowing sex isn't the answer. .... Well , being here, is not a good start for you.

How did you figure this was going to turn out for you..... one day you sat down to fill out a profile on a sex site, thought about different names you could use.... came up with "Assworship".... then reveal , "I need help knowing sex is not the answer". Basically you're just begging to be fucked over.

I do not like feeling like a hooker .... You're on the wrong site , if that's the feeling you are trying to avoid.

but not getting anything out of it. ... Would it help if they gave you money? Because you're certainly not going to get an emotional commitment from a guy on site like this.

I know going on these sites of course guys will use me. ... Great! You've figured out part of the problem.

Even in the past though guys saying they want more but then don't after they fuck me .... Of course. You know the expression, "Seduce my mind and you can have my body"? [ I have no idea why girls have championed that saying]... that saying is how the better Players operate. Tell the woman what she needs to hear, and get into bed.

Women do something like the same thing to men, but she isn't seducing his mind, just his penis.

and they didn't even make me cum..... Sure. No surprise there. ...Question: can you make yourself come?.......Because if you can't, then why would you expect a guy would be able to do that?

I haven't had sex of any kind for over 2 years because I hated the feeling of being cheap and used. .... Again... you're on the wrong kind of site. And you're telling guys on here 3 different things.... "Worship my ass".... "I'm broken and I want commitment".

This is not the site for a woman in your situation to be on. This site will not make you better... no way!!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/5/2019 4:01 pm

    Quoting CARROTSPIRAL6969:
    awe oxoxoox i alwasy get used by women so that is why i am here to find women that do not.
You're on the wrong site to find that .


MrSMT69r 38M
1 post
4/9/2020 4:33 pm

Well it can happen but it’s rare.... to find the ONE ☝️ THAT YOU can’t really get enough of


Reyese87 37M
1 post
9/12/2020 7:38 pm

You got this. You are golden!!! Like your member name says ass worship. there is a man out there that is going to worship you. stay off sites like these and worship him back. I'm sure theres someone that can keep up with your drive.

Take Care


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