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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2018 9:04 am

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks and Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
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A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

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1st time for the 12th VS International Intrigue -- 13th Virtual world and blogs -- 14th vs First dates
15th VS Black and White __ 16th vs Casual relationships __17th The First Time __18th VS Its a Secret&vs18its a secret__19thVS Its science time__20thVS My life as a __VS23 Dreams

Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding

Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Carpet service ...again
Posted:Feb 24, 2018 11:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2018 7:36 pm
Cunnilingus, cunnilinguist, oral, giving head...

wait wat..., now I have a craving for oral..

I have enjoyed oral sex for a long time, both give and receive. Some days I like to give lots, some days I want it all

I know the feeling of craving or desiring,
it can become a strong urge, enough for me to seek it out.
Hence why I like multiple partners, some are great at piv and some are great with oral.

If only I could bend in half...I would never have to seek out carpet service again.

Probably the same reason why men where given the penis and not the vag can you imagine how many wrinkly fingers would be out there

Ah well...
Now, add that on my list this week
Carpet service needed asap.
Must be skilled with tongue, fingers, and other tools.
Must enjoy the job, be enthusiastic, and have an eye for detail.
pending job done. May include a 6 and a 9, service to the pipe, hand polish and spit shine.

Send SAE, to:
"Little miss Flower, FingerLickin BC, Canada, S3X 4u2";
c/o She'sPicky Geez
Please include a description of the service you provide and include a photo (one where you are holding a dead fish is acceptable...just not a close up..of the fish),
never mind, just send a picture of your truck.

Sitting here with a bit of time on my hands.
I think I will go for a drive and find some sushi or some finger liken bbq ribs. (Just to lick the sauce from my...)
Ok hungry now.

Sex injuries. .. broken furniture
Posted:Feb 24, 2018 8:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2018 7:42 pm
Boning injuries!
Any tales of sexytime injuries or moments that ended in a moment of laughter or a wtf? 😊

Falling off the bed or bruises or what have you! 😁

My last best moment, I was having some really great sex with a new friend.. and the center beam on my bed broke! My bed tilted and hit the floor. 😳 So 11pm I swear my land lady probably jumped out of bed also because I could hear the dog jump up (hardwood floors upstairs).
Slightly embarrassed bec this was a new bedframe, new guy, having great sex.... but he was that great that we went with the flow - threw the frame out the front door, Mattress on the floor and continued on for the next few hours! Lol

Let's see,
I've take skin off my knees, elbows, back..
I have banged my head off of a coffee table, and a few other hard surfaces. Lol

How about you sexy bloggers,
Any fun stories to share?
Friday night
Posted:Feb 23, 2018 8:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2018 9:46 am
Sexy bloggers,
We are still snowed in here!

But apart from that:

Thirsty Thursday
Posted:Feb 22, 2018 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2018 7:11 am
It's a beautiful sunny day in the badlands and you don't even notice the cold. 😎

So growing into my lower libido hasn't been easy but one thing I did develop is a lack of filter on my mouth. Lol.
Or maybe it's because my experience has battle hardened me to online dating.

Ah well, either way I'm all out of fucks to give. Lol

Sexy bloggers. ... what's up with the point system?
I just like to collect points for the fun of it, but mine have been stuck at the same number for the last week or so.

Spring time is a coming and I'm an restless!
My libido is only buried under a thin layer of "ignore little miss pleasure", I haven't quite mastered how to turn it off so I am going with avoidance right now. Lol

I will say that my erotic mind is still working in the background, she sends tingles of remnant desire for orgasms, thus my ladybits flash with a quick deep urgency for orgasms. ... then it quickly goes back behind that veil so it's not forced to think about non-sexy things.

But yanno.... my mind has been wandering back to longing for great sex, but luckily my experiences stop it short with reminders that I still need to find men into me.

Wait ...squirrel ... I mean squirty!
God yes I'm craving squirty orgasms and a hard cock....
Where did feb go,,,
Posted:Feb 21, 2018 8:17 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2018 6:54 pm

Sexy bloggers its the end of February already but it sure doesn't feel like spring yet!
We had a cold front come in and more snow!
-27 is kinda chilly to work in... that or I'm just feeling some age. LOL!

I have been thinking about my kinks lately especially with spring fever creeping in.

The typical bondage scenes and flogging, plus I am really wanting to practice with my single tails.
But I have also been pondering over the more sex based kinks (shocker I know),

I have also been thinkin over Sexual Objectification, that is treating a male partner like an honored object that is there because he's hot, someone that I can show off, tie him up is sexy bondage then have a few photos to share (face hidden, and any identifying marks). Treat him as a sex object, he's there for my pleasure (and of course to tease the hell out of his). Yes, yes, this is all agreed upon between consenting adults, this is not about humiliation and degradation, for me its will be about sex, pride and ego.

Lets see, what other kinks, stag and vixen lifestyle. (not quite cuckold, or swinger)
More of a wittol, but having a male partner that can encourage or support my having sex with other men.
You know how many swingers share with other couples or are unicorn hunters, maybe the male half can enjoy his partners pleasure (but I am thinkin he's more into because he gets new pussy too, rather than enjoying his SO others enjoyment).

Whereas a wittol / stag takes great enjoyment out of his SO others pleasure.

Plus it's different from a cuckold because a stag/wittol will have great sex with his SO, whereas most cucks don't really have sex with their SO or its more about humiliation that all other cocks are superior to his (obviously he doesn't quite grasp the concept that hookup guys really aren't that great.)
The fun would be having meh sex with the other men, but having my partner reclaim me after and give me mind bending sex. ..
...ya fuckk...that makes me wet just typing this out. lol

Ya ya ya...I get "wonderful dream miss flower but when does the FMF come into this"
ahem -> its my fantasy and vivid thoughts that turn ME on. lol

Kink time sexy folks!
I am still looking for a semi private venue to host a few kink friendly "workshops" and bondage safety/practice nights. But space, more cheap space is a premium in this city for some strange reason.

How about lifestyle try outs?
Monogamy? Monogamish? Poly? Poly-fuckery? Swinger? other?

How about spring fever?

(more for those that have seasons)
Who messages who makes a difference. ..
Posted:Feb 19, 2018 9:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2018 7:25 pm

At least on dating sites like cupid!
And of course it depends on how hot or young she is..

According to the crunched numbers on the cupid site, it really depends on your age and the age bracket you message in order to increase your chances of a response.
Older women = over 40 (but some even say that it's 35)(don't like it, don't shoot the messenger).

I am sure many have been through the slow down of messages received from men or even views to your profile (yep, unless you are also looking for casual sex or men 12-20+ yrs older than you). It's no secret that many men prefer that younger age gap for relationships, and even just for sex.

But don't worry Older Women, according to the stats you don't have to settle for what's left over or have sex with much older men, you can target younger men and they are responding!

As some with a insatiable libido I have dated men younger than me ...well since I was 24. I stopped on that search a few ago because I wanted a stronger connection and the ability to explore other things. I already knew about man's preferences for younger because when I was in my 20's I always had men in thier 40's and 50's hitting on me. But I actually thought that I would find a compatible "age appropriate" man (started looking around when I turned 35)...lolol ollol yah I had big dreams alright.

Anyway, when my sex therapist recommended that I should just go back to "dating" younger men, I had to process all my experiences in the last 8 yrs and think them through (and I am still letting go on wanting more..).
Which most of my bad experiences came from dating in a certain age bracket.

So maybe cupid is right, , ... I should give up on my search for a meaningful connection and just look for pretty things instead.

::seeings how a younger man is more likely to respond than an older man.::
But it's still a work in progress, having to give up looking for something that I really wanted so I am still processing that mind track.
But maybe by the summer I will start looking for younger men and fly my cougar flag once again!

Undressed: What’s the Deal With the Age Gap in Relationships? Older men often date younger women, but every can benefit when the age gap is reversed. ~ cupid blogs.
Be nice, it's just common knowledge, the cupid site has a few good data sets if dating trends interest you. Its no secret that men prefer the age gap, esp for a much younger female partner.
Little advice from Men's Health... :)
Posted:Feb 18, 2018 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2018 4:40 pm

Things can be a little less clear for the rest of us. While we hope that our partners are being open and honest with us, the majority of women are speeding things up with fauxgasms at least some of the time, says Dr. Kim Wallen, Ph.D., a Behavioral Neuroendocrinologist at Emory University.

Wallen has seen studies that suggest more than half of all women’s orgasms are fakes. “The average incidence of sex that results in orgasm in heterosexual women is 75 percent, but that includes all types of sex, including oral sex,” he says, adding that oral sex brought those numbers up because of clitoral stimulation.

So, science says, there may be room for improvement. And who better to guide us through the murky waters of the female orgasm than a male escort?

We asked a handful of straight male esc0rts, from the U.S. to Australia (where escorts-for-hire are legal), about what keeps their customers coming, and coming back.

1. Work on Your Massage Skills

Believe it or not, massage is the number one request made to male escorts; sometimes erotic, sometimes non-erotic. Either way, if your idea of a massage is an absent-minded back-scratching, you need to up your game. If you haven’t done it recently, get a massage from a professional therapist, just to remind yourself what’s involved in a really good one.

2. The Power of Kissing

Nothing turns on a woman more than a solid make-out session. Kissing is like the foreplay to foreplay. But when you’re trying to get past first base, keep the kisses coming. And coming. Gabriel Lamur, an Italian escort working in Sydney, Australia, told us that kisses should not be limited to a woman’s lips. “Kissing all the parts of her body is what most clients want,” he said. Kisses up and down her back, inside her thighs, the tips of her fingers: those are the turn-ons that will eventually take the sex up a notch.

3. Your Orgasm Isn’t the Main Attraction

Male escorts don’t go into a job expecting to orgasm. If it happens, it happens. But that’s not what he’s getting paid for, unless his client specifically requests it. The next time you have sex, try this approach. Take the spotlight off yourself and shift it to her. We’re not saying you can’t come; just don’t make it the priority. Focus solely on her climax.

4. Trim It Like a Porn Star

Grooming yourself down there demonstrates that you’re doing everything you can to look sexy for her. You may not get rock-hard abs or a tight ass overnight, but you can manscape in the shower. A few escorts we talked to recommended investing in a $50 Braun cruZer6 body trimmer, because it’s safe for everything inside your underwear.

5. Foreplay Matters

This should be obvious, but it’s worth repeating. Assuming a woman is paying for an escort’s minimum (usually two hours), and there won’t be a need for any pillow talk after the sex (because let’s face it, they’re strangers), that means at least an hour and a half of that time is foreplay. This paid-in-full foreplay is more about getting her ready that making sure the guy’s dick is hard. Think about that if you ever find yourself thinking, “10 minutes of foreplay should be fine.”

6. Match Her Game

If she’s talking dirty, then you should talk back dirty. If she’s quiet and shy, then follow her lead. escorts agree that the outcome is best for her if they pick up on her verbal cues and play along. (Unless she’s trying to live out some kind of sweet-shy-girl-meets-dominant-douche-bag fantasy, then have at it.)

7.  Match Her Kink

Say there is a spectrum of kink, and she’s on one end. You don’t want to be at the other end, even though it’s common for male escorts to have a very long list of oh-my-God-people-really-want-that services they’d provide if asked. Our panel of escorts agree that women tend to have a kink threshold—maybe handcuffs and anal play, but no more than that—so you have to make sure you don’t go past that. In other words, if she’s asking for the Boyfriend Experience, don’t give her the Christian Grey Experience.

8.  There's No “I” In "Sex"

You can come alone, but you can't have actual sex by yourself. It takes two. (And sometimes, more.) One American escort summed up the coupling experience with this: “It turns into a relationship,” he said, “even if it’s only for one night.” So think of every sexual encounter as time for the two of you to communicate, compromise, and come together. The sex isn't just part of a relationship. It can be its own relationship. And that's a lesson that will pay off beyond the bedroom.
Not your type (?)
Posted:Feb 14, 2018 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2018 8:12 pm

Sexy bloggers,
Let's see
I have been around dating sites long enough to have a pretty good feel about preferences, more specifically men's wording and his preferences when it comes to attraction.

When I read a profile and he states something along the lines of:
"Seeking hot/beautiful/attractive/sexy woman"
I pretty much just pass him by because experience has proven over again n again that he is 99% referring to conventionally attractive women.

My same experience applies to attractive/handsome men, generally they look for someone hotter then he is.

BUT... why don't (many) men believe me when I say that I'm not his type nor what he is looking for?
Do you not like the fact that you stated that you want attractive so that really does mean that you want attractive and I think most women have a pretty good grasp on where they stand on the "attraction scale" (#notallwomen) ...

So then he proceeds to make a big deal about not being "shallow" and that he's "open to everyone"! Pesters me into sharing a face pic........then he ghosts.
So much for not being shallow

Don't worry I am so used to it that I don't even bother trying. pays to know where you stand on the average scale. Lol. And yes the hookup guys are the worst when it comes to this, so don't believe it when they say men can get it up for a stiff breeze. I'm on a dating site that seems to have lots of attractive men on it, so I won't be meeting anyone soon on there.

So sexy bloggers,
Are you as open as you claim?
Do you get angry when she points it out that you want hot?
Or if she thinks she's hotter than she actually is?
(I think that's a catfish thing)
What about your preferences, set in age group and attractiveness?

(The younger she is the less hot she can be because yanno she's young)
Now I am not talking absolute troll material, just the average scale to hot.
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The kind of mood I'm in...
Posted:Feb 8, 2018 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2018 7:21 pm

Yep winter is starting to drag on...cabin fever is setting in.
Insatiable again
Posted:Feb 5, 2018 1:17 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2018 11:10 am
Maybe it's the increase in daylight or just a deep seated longing for sex... but whichever it is ...
it has been taking over my thoughts, my dreams, and creeping in every chance it gets.
Definitely testing my will power now... I just want to orgasm so badly
I want to suck cock,
I want to feel it slide in nice n slow and deep,
The scent of sex in the air,
Wet squirty orgasms with a cock buried in my throat.... sigh
Feel his hands on my body, the heat, the urgency,

Thanks mind, you have such a vivid spank bank. 😍😍😍😍

Just to feel a hard cock in my hand, in my mouth, deep in my cunt.
I just want to masturbate to my little hearts content. Lol

Anyway, #theStruggle is real.
Sinday morning
Posted:Feb 4, 2018 8:01 am
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2018 6:08 pm
A drizzly ice rainy day yesterday, hopefully today is much better weather in the badlands.

One of those mornings where I am craving bacon and pancakes but I need to get to work....
Sex would be great also. Lol.

But I will take my coffee on the road and grab a quick bite, I will cook a nice dinner tonight though.

Spring is on its way and the badlands are going from mud pit to ice rink all in one day. Yesterday I ended up soaked, so today I will remember a change of gear just in case I end up in the rain n snow again.

Enjoy your day sexy bloggers,
I'm still on a break from porn, sex, stimulation, so ya my thoughts are pretty boring. ... I really do wonder how low sex drive people get through thier day or even have a lust for life. Lol

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