We are a 40's something married couple looking to expand our fun. We have had multiple threesomes with women and a couple MF/MF experiences. We have not gone full swap but think it would be exciting but not necessary. We enjoy having sex with or around others. We may be considered "new", we are very discrete and are just not comfortable putting our pictures out there. We have ren who have friends and such, it would be devastating if our "little secret" were to get out to those who know us in the "real world". We are not professional swingers, we are a stable couple who enjoys trying something different once in awhile. We are both very clean, we have been together for 24 years and have only had sex with 2 other people, both women. Like we said, we have had same room stuff with other couples but no real swapping has occurred. He is vasectomy secured I on the other hand still have my goods so if a swapping scenario were to happen I would insist condoms be worn for penetration, oral without is just great with me. :D

My Ideal Person Our perfect match would be a very chill single woman who would like to have the occasional party night, concert, or 3some. We leave our expectations at the door and are really just looking to connect and have some fun. Obviously this is the PERFECT match, but who really gets perfection in this world. We have sort of played with a couple before but haven't taken it to the swap end. It just didn't seem to be the right time, although, all involved would have been game.
We wish to get into the game. In terms of a couple, we are looking for real couples that are not professional swingers. We don't just want to be a number on a bedpost. We would like to hang out, party, laugh, drink, watch adult films and see what happens. We have never been to the MON or SR but are going to take the "plunge" in the next few weeks and check out the MON. Not sure what happens there so we will be getting a room and will just see what happens. We like the strip clubs, PT's on Evans to be specific. Seems to be a good place to meet a couple, have a drink and get the hell out of there. I really don't like paying $12 for a beer, so moving to a local 'regular" bar to get acquainted would be awesome. We are normal people, not ken and barbie but average. We live busy lives so getting to the gym is less of a priority. With that being said, we are sexy people with a couple extra pounds here and there. FYI, we can both see our own sex bits..... We are attracted to the same types, we like healthy real people. He likes all types of women, short, tall, slim to small BBW. I am into real women, but not attracted to large BBW;s. It's kind of hard to explain so hows this, please be HWPish, like me. I like big boobs but it is not necessary. You just need to be sexy in your skin. I like to give oral to M and F. He likes giving oral to women, sorry freaky guys, he is just not into that.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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