I'm looking for an occasional, discrete, no strings attached encounter. I am a 44 year old woman who has been in a steady relationship with a man for 7 years. Over the years sex had dwindled severely, and we've only had sex THREE times in the past two years, each time at my instigation. Have had everything checked out; he's just too content to play video games rather than play with me...hence his 70 lb weight gain. I've had my share of medical issues, my stomach is a road map of scars and my extra padding might be considered as bordering on ample by some. My 36D cups look good in a bra but they are real, so they do not defy gravity. I'm only 5' 2" and to be honest I'm not a fan of high heels because I'd probably break my neck! My only experience is with men (8 partners), but having had so few thoroughly satisfying experiences with them I am starting to wonder if maybe the ladies would be better at It? Lol ;)

My Ideal Person My ideal playmate must be gentle and discrete, well-endowed (more than 6 inches erect) be talented with his hands and have oral skills to match my own.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

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