I'm a young, petitie, femme bottom/sissy hoping to find a dominant top (or tops) to help me explore my kinky fantasies. I'm bi and enjoy serving both men and women. What I struggle with on these sites is that I know I'm not to everyone's taste when it comes to actual play. I enjoy sex a lot...but am mainly a submissive and am interested mostly in BDSM play with dominant partners (male and/or female). Some of my favourite types on play involve being tied up, spanked, nipple play, electro-play, giving stripteases/lap dances, doing chores as a sissy maid (yes, I'll actually clean your house for you), obedience training/pet play, and enforced chastity. What I'd love is to find a dominant Mistress, Master, or couple to make me their maid, bondage slut, and locked-up chastity slave. ^_^ I usually prefer to play in chastity and don't like my clit being played with (it makes me feel masculine). I also don't realistically see myself connecting with anyone who isn't interested in my kinky side and who isn't into BDSM too. [I]I'm quite new to this site and am not a Gold member at the moment. I'll try to respond to messages where I can. However, I'm looking to actually meet with local Dom(me)s and only have limited 'points' right now. So if you'd like to chat, try to make it clear that you're looking for the same thing as me, and maybe consider tipping a few points so I can respond if you comfortably have points to spare. :) [/I]

My Ideal Person I'm a sapiophile and a submissive. So I'm really attracted to dominant energy and intelligence. An experienced Dom(me) with an interest in BDSM, a way with words, and a creative (slightly sadistic) imagination makes me weak in the knees. Looks are honestly secondary to me. If you can make me feel like your helpless, owned sissy slut - and also make me feel safe being that vulnerable to you - we'll likely be a great fit.

Men and women are both equally attractive to me - and I find both female dominant and male dominant energy attractive in different ways. What I'd love more than anything is to submit to a dominant couple.

On the other hand, there are some people I just don't 'click' with. People without any interest or experience in BDSM...people who say they're a "dominant" but only want to jump to sex without other D/s play...and people who can't take the time to communicate well - these kinds of people don't generally catch my attention, and probably won't get a response from me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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