I am tired of being alone. And waiting for my dream to find me. I have been searching. But never seem to get close. That is truly why i am on here. To find my inspiration, my hope and guiding light. That can see the good in me, and help me change my flawed ways. Like being fat scratch that Morbidly obese, and type II Diabetic. If i keep going down that path, my life will be much shorter. And my dreams will be unfulfilled. I have Ideas that i think will change the world for the better. Save lives and protect those that are precious to us. I have tried on my own to get people's attention. But they just can't see my vision. Maybe you are the muse i need to change my life and to help me change the future. I ask that you be healthy. Because i want a long life with you. I ask that you be wise to help me where i am lacking. And i ask that you be willing to work. To take this lump of coal and bring out the diamond hidden within. I know there will be hardship and there will be pain. But without it we will never grow. Or learn from our mistakes. HELP ME! All i can promise is that if you do then i will cherish you with every fiber of my being! On that i swear! Thank you for reading this. Below is my old description. I wanted to show you the prior me. So you can see the change. I thought that if i put it in terms of flowers. That i might peak your interest's. Yes i am in need of some loving. It's been about four years since the last time i made love to a woman. You may ask why? Well it's the same as it is for women. Evil people are not always men. There are plenty of women out there that destroy men's faith in women. So i am looking for a lady to prove. That there are still women out there that deserve my respect. Are you that lady? I hope so! Please contact me so we can find out if we are compatible! WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this

My Ideal Person I'm (straight). I'm (not interested) in exploring sex with another (man). Now saying that I also mean that i am not homophobic, I understand that it's their right to do what ever that want to do.
But please respect my rights to. Now about group matter might be a different story. I guess i am a little timid. But it would be possible for me to play in a group as long as i truly can trust the group.
I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I don't want to ruin anyone's relationships. And i certainly don't want people talking about me behind my back.
I don't consider myself kinky, but I would like to try out a few things.
The only taboo I have in the bedroom is pain and humiliation.
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is anywhere just as long as we don't get arrested!
Extramarital affairs (do not interest me) I hate when someone destroy's their family just for their own pleasure. But if both parties of a couple approve. Then it's perfectly fine.
One sexual fantasy I've always had is to be pick up by a woman while blindfolded And brought to a unknown place to be taken advantage of. The kick of this is i will never know who or where or if there was witnesses. So for the rest of my life i may be blushing wonder who!
My feelings on one-night stands are i had one and it was wild. But also disappointing just because i never got the chance to know her. So i really never wish to have one again. Not to mention the fear of disease.
Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - (is) as important as sex. if not more!
Foreplay is (underrated). I like (lots of foreplay before/going straight to) penetration.
Now if we wish to discuss what I am looking for in a partner. #1 and most important TRUST! If you want to tell your friends and family how nice a person i am that is fine. But if you embarrass, insult, or degrade me. then it's over. #2 HONESTY! this is the same for lying. No matter how bad it is i want the truth. I can never trust my partner if she is hiding things from me. And being FAITHFUL is #3. If you want to play with other men then tell me! Better yet let me be a part of it. Also of course you can expect the same from me. I could never give my heart and sole to anyone that could not follow these simple rules.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A rollercoaster, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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