Looking for unencumbered fun, like many here, the naughtier the better. The best times I've had are joining up with couples and groups, but of course one-on-one is awesome. I love everyone's pictures and videos and revelatory profiles. Yes, meetups irl would be fantastic, but I'm also game for hot chat (via text and video) and the thrills and chills of titillation, even if we never intend to meet. Dirty talk, pics, videos, ongoing flirtations and outright cybersexing are fun! Like little supernovae to heat up the heart and the libido. No relationship goals at all via AFF, other than potentially becoming secret friends. I mean this both in a sexual way--as in playdates (woohoo!)--and as cyber pals. It can be really nice to have someone to share fantasies or frustrations with, even if you'll never connect skin-to-skin. Why "secret" friends? Well, I suppose it's pretty typical, but I'm settled in with someone and don't want to hurt them, yet often crave sexuality going beyond their comfort levels, and am able to forgive myself for enjoying the occasional fling outside of home life and its limitations. Judge all you like--I realize it's crappy behavior, and can live with it for now. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde are firmly compartmentalized, and, in all honesty, there's a special thrill in letting Mr. Hyde out for a romp now and then, a baseline thrill in simply being bad. If there's a bright side to my situation for you, the reader, it's that no-strings discretion is guaranteed! I enjoy vanilla sex just fine, but am open to much more. If there's a special thing that I love most, it's got to be going down on a woman's ass, and I love receiving as well. Mutual ass play and analingus are wonderful things. Though I'm not solidly bi, I've enjoyed cocksucking, as well as fucking and being fucked by men in MFM scenarios. It's weird--I'm not attracted to men, but if there's a woman in the mix, my inhibitions seem to lighten up. And threesomes are just plain fun. You'll find me as Missoulatana on fetlife, by the way, where I've made a few connections (male and female) for trips to the Fantasy for Adults theater. If you're in Missoula and unaware, it's worth your time to look into. I love to watch, and when the theater gets filled up, there's plenty to see, and join in on, too. Kinda cool just being able to be oneself sexually in a semi-public arena. It's certainly an exciting practice to me.

My Ideal Person I would be thrilled to find a couple or woman who just wants some occasional, wicked-as-fuck fun in Missoula. A meetup now and then in some no-tell motel, zero judgment, zero inhibitions, zero strings. We don't need to be BFFs or anything beyond friendly in the moment, good, giving, and game, and open to whatever kinks may bubble up. Does this sound like a nice addition to your life?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I pulled this directly from a past post in the Fantasy Theater
for Adults group on fetlife. A wish list of sorts for what
might happen there in my perfect world: <br><br>
I wish for all the noble things: world peace, an end to poverty
and all the evil -isms, not to mention universal healthcare
and free college for everyone, but the secret side of me
wishes for more decadent experiences. What about y'all?
What would you wish for at the theater if those wishes could
come true? <br><br>
For starters, I wish for a woman draped over the arm of the
sofa, ass in the air, demanding I tongue fuck her asshole
while her play partner spreads her open for me. In the best
satisfaction of this wish, we would--at her request--swap
roles, she doing the same to me while stroking my cock firmly,
slowly, keeping me mercilessly on the edge of orgasm until
she decides it's time. <br><br>
I wish stripper nights would return, but with an "anything
goes" policy (within reason and with invitation/permission).
It's a longstanding fantasy of mine to be in your everyday
strip club, but be free to masturbate while watching the
dancers, to be free to touch and be touched, but still maintain
that performer and audience baseline of distance and,
I suppose, power. The performer is in charge, after all,
despite what many men like to think.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Fisting, Massage, Semi-public fun, as in theater play.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A love of

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